
My first blog was in 2004, on a site called LiveJournal. I started it just days after I lost my ten year old daughter to complications from the removal of a brain tumor, and it chronicled my journey through grief for about two years. It was tremendously healing for me, and got me comfortable with blogging.
My next was when I began blogging for the Institute for Personal Growth website, in 2010.
Now that I have my own website, I’ve decided to blog again, on anything I consider important to mental health, sexuality, or LGBTQ+ or women’s rights. Please check back for entries!
THEY’RE COMING FOR OUR KIDS! (This piece will be published as part of the QueerPsych website in August 2023)
Unless you live in a cave, you already know that the LGBTQ+ community is under fire by far- right groups working on a state -by -state level to enact discriminatory laws. But you may not realize how bad it is or what the issues are.
As someone who has been an activist and therapist in the LGBTQ+ community for over forty years, and whose practice has focused on trans, nonbinary, and gender nonconforming kids and young people for the last fifteen, the last two years have been a nightmare. It reminds me of the anti-gay backlash of the late 1970’s. And both then and now, the state of Florida has been the place where the backlash started!
IN 2021, WE NEED TO PROTECT TRANS KIDS
Dr. Michele Hutchinson, a physician at the Arkansas Children’s Hospital Gender Spectrum Clinic, testified before the state Senate in March that there were “multiple kids in our emergency room because of an attempted suicide, just in the last week,”and that “since then, I have had one of my own patients attempt suicide.” The Institute for Personal Growth, the agency I led until 2019 and which is New Jersey’s largest provider of affirmative mental health care to transgender youth, reports more suicide attempts among patients, by an exponential factor, in 2021 than ever before- most by transgender adolescents and youth.
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